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if a tim is taking selfies in restroom while twerking & i trip trying to escape & accidentally drown him in the toilet... am i an "Unwilling Participant" ?

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LOL Death by toilet seems like an exceptionally fitting end for these invaders.

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Hi kai, you're so lovely and witty and entertaining I love seeing your name pop up in the comment section of some of my favourite creators cos I know you're about to put a smile on my face!! Thank you for your tireless and unending presence xx

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Thank you! That was very sweet of you.

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🤣

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I find her line of questioning extremely annoying and like u said, distracting and purposely confusing. If women feel such a visceral disgust at seeing men cross dressed, there must be a good biological/evolutionary reason for that and needn't be dismissed or told to retrain themselves out of it. Women don't need to be thinking about all this bullshit instead of getting themselves and their kids the hell out of harm's way.

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May 9Edited

Please tell me she doesn't have kids. She's a perv panderer.

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Narcissists do not allow boundaries....terribly offensive to them

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It's like tell us you are obsessed without telling us you are obsessed.

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Assuming you meant Thrace, not Karen.

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Yeah absolutely!!

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What about this? What about that?

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I don’t think she’s traumatized. I really think her agenda is to oppose those of us she sees as “prudes” complaining about the mainstreaming of fetishistic behavior. By her own description, that someone quoted on your first post about this, she has a colorful sexual history. And that’s fine. Most people don’t care what others do in their private life, or private parties with like-minded individuals. Our objection (or mine, at least) is taking it public. She doesn’t have any problem with it. Her problem was when her husband’s fetish turned into a narcissistic obsession and destroyed their relationship.

But she can’t say that out loud. So she doesn’t, as Karen points out over and over, focus on the point. She instead nitpicks the details or brings in examples that are beside the point, claiming to just be concerned about accuracy in language. What if your back was turned? What if he’s wearing “normal” clothes? What if it’s a het couple with a sex toy at a private party? And on and on.

She’s demanding for us to say WHAT EXACT POINT we are “drawn into” (a phrase she hates) the fetish, and then saying in her latest post that SHE’S not “drawn into” anything she doesn’t choose to be. The message is, “WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? This doesn’t really affect you. This is YOUR problem. Look the other way.”

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These theater kids desperately want us to pretend with them. They’ve never watched To Catch A Predator.

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🍍

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Are we sure this Shannon person is a woman? Because all those "what ifs" tumbling out of him/her seems more what men say.

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Attempted normalization of fetishes and perversions. She's nothing more than an apologist. It's funny how kink-lovers insist that it's everyone else who has the problem and try to shame others by calling them prudes etc. - doing to others exactly what they don't want us doing to them!

F'ing hypocrites! (I'm so proud of myself - I only used ONE expletive!)

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Is genspect paying women to put down the words TIMs tell them to write so that it appears under the name of a woman?

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This is really just Shannon pretending to not understand the point.

“Is a man with a leather fetish who wears a leather jacket in public drawing others into his fetish?” Girl I can’t, are you serious rn.

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Hey there, "You're Kiddin', Right?' administrator! I have submitted *multiple* requests to this site, and *still no* response. Gotta cut off funding for gaslighters! Please don't be one, now. ☹️

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