"If they love you for you", becoming a gender liar is the opposite of people being themselves.The turning away from themselves, rejecting themselves, but expecting everyone else to accept them is just one of the many absurdities of these people. Their never ending hypocrisy is exhausting.
But, *of course* cult affiliation has to at least be seen to take precedence over the individual's actual, real life relationships with anyone *NOT* in the gender/body mod cult.
Then, when their life inevitably starts to fall the f*ck apart they can just invoke the apparently omnipresent "transphobia" rather than taking the opportunity to look inwards for the reasons behind their psychological and interpersonal difficulties.
I don't understand how that Reddit post currently has 3.6k Up votes. Who? How? How can people be so stupid and deranged. So much butchery, lying and gas lighting advocacy.
The idpol language has an awesome affect on people. "Transness" is supposedly an inherent part of someone's identity, right? Like being black, or disabled or an autist… 🤔 So the husband being against the impoonification of the woman he loves is basically the same as trying to force a black woman to bleach her skin, right?! Or insisting a practising Jew wolf down pigs feet, right?! 😧 My gosh, what an awful [s]heathen[/s] cishet he must be 😢💔
… Man, I try to remember what it's like to be within that hug box, but honestly, at this stage it's hard
That's exactly what I thought. 100%. It's the Kindest and least selfish thing to do than to drag them through the gas-lighting, dishonesty, revisionist history and overall roller coaster of insanity and deception they'll want you to participate in.
Better they leave you, allow you to mourn the relationship and then start afresh with someone who is confident, appreciative and happy to live with the body and sex that they have and are.
With perhaps the exception of a mother for her child no love is unconditional. It baffles me, absolutely baffles me how anyone would stay with someone making such a fundamental betrayal of the relationship. I love my husband dearly but if he ever announced he wanted to troon out or even expressed an interest in crossdressing he would be out on his arse the very next day!
Let's be clear there is nothing brave, stunning or courageous about medical transition. It is the most selfish thing you can do. It stands to benefit nobody but yourself and it VERY VERY Rarely does even that.
I've never been a girly girl either, but I'm still a woman, and cutting off my tits won't change that. It's mindblowing to me that there's now women who are 35+ who are falling for this shit. The teens/college students I kinda get (in the sense that they've likely been groomed for 1/2 their lives in this way). But 35? WTF
Also I think the best thing these people could do is to divorce if their spouses aren't into it and they're not willing to be normal. That way their spouse can start over again with a normal person. I hope none of these people have kids. Or if they do, old enough to understand "mom's nuts, I'll avoid her for a few years/decades"
How can someone expect another to accept them for who they are when they start hacking themselves up because they don't respect themselves for who they are...... ????
They usually end up pairing up with each other or people who are desperate for anybody - because no one normal wants to go out with mentally unfit lab experiment.
I never cease to be shocked at these people who claim that for them to live life as their "true" selves requires surgery, medication, changes to legal paperwork (birth certificate, passport, driver's license) and complete unwavering support from everyone who crosses their path.
This is their "true" self but one pronoun they don't like is tantamount to attempted murder.
"If they love you for you", becoming a gender liar is the opposite of people being themselves.The turning away from themselves, rejecting themselves, but expecting everyone else to accept them is just one of the many absurdities of these people. Their never ending hypocrisy is exhausting.
Being left by crazy is a blessing.
Your last sentence got me!😂🎯
But, *of course* cult affiliation has to at least be seen to take precedence over the individual's actual, real life relationships with anyone *NOT* in the gender/body mod cult.
Then, when their life inevitably starts to fall the f*ck apart they can just invoke the apparently omnipresent "transphobia" rather than taking the opportunity to look inwards for the reasons behind their psychological and interpersonal difficulties.
I don't understand how that Reddit post currently has 3.6k Up votes. Who? How? How can people be so stupid and deranged. So much butchery, lying and gas lighting advocacy.
The idpol language has an awesome affect on people. "Transness" is supposedly an inherent part of someone's identity, right? Like being black, or disabled or an autist… 🤔 So the husband being against the impoonification of the woman he loves is basically the same as trying to force a black woman to bleach her skin, right?! Or insisting a practising Jew wolf down pigs feet, right?! 😧 My gosh, what an awful [s]heathen[/s] cishet he must be 😢💔
… Man, I try to remember what it's like to be within that hug box, but honestly, at this stage it's hard
There must really be a lot of selfish arseholes out there, I guess.
Stands to reason that they'd all flock to Reddit if you ask me.
Anybody who disagrees on these moderated trans posts gets banned. Thought police. Hugbox echo chambering.
Sound's like good advice to me. Leave him or her so they can get on with life without the crazy drama! Do them a favour.
That's exactly what I thought. 100%. It's the Kindest and least selfish thing to do than to drag them through the gas-lighting, dishonesty, revisionist history and overall roller coaster of insanity and deception they'll want you to participate in.
Better they leave you, allow you to mourn the relationship and then start afresh with someone who is confident, appreciative and happy to live with the body and sex that they have and are.
With perhaps the exception of a mother for her child no love is unconditional. It baffles me, absolutely baffles me how anyone would stay with someone making such a fundamental betrayal of the relationship. I love my husband dearly but if he ever announced he wanted to troon out or even expressed an interest in crossdressing he would be out on his arse the very next day!
Let's be clear there is nothing brave, stunning or courageous about medical transition. It is the most selfish thing you can do. It stands to benefit nobody but yourself and it VERY VERY Rarely does even that.
Exactly!
I've never been a girly girl either, but I'm still a woman, and cutting off my tits won't change that. It's mindblowing to me that there's now women who are 35+ who are falling for this shit. The teens/college students I kinda get (in the sense that they've likely been groomed for 1/2 their lives in this way). But 35? WTF
Also I think the best thing these people could do is to divorce if their spouses aren't into it and they're not willing to be normal. That way their spouse can start over again with a normal person. I hope none of these people have kids. Or if they do, old enough to understand "mom's nuts, I'll avoid her for a few years/decades"
How can someone expect another to accept them for who they are when they start hacking themselves up because they don't respect themselves for who they are...... ????
They usually end up pairing up with each other or people who are desperate for anybody - because no one normal wants to go out with mentally unfit lab experiment.
I never cease to be shocked at these people who claim that for them to live life as their "true" selves requires surgery, medication, changes to legal paperwork (birth certificate, passport, driver's license) and complete unwavering support from everyone who crosses their path.
This is their "true" self but one pronoun they don't like is tantamount to attempted murder.
Right.
Yep,you have to wonder how 'true' it is when it's 100% dependent on external validation.
Cult behavior
Happy Memorial Day!
If my husband told me he was planning to get his dick flayed and inverted I'd be out of there before he could say 'call me Cynthia'.
The husband whose wife is schizophrenic should NEVER have been trans-medicalized. How fricking irresponsible her medical team was. Malpractice fodder.
Goodness gracious.... these pooners are gross 🤢